God says to wait and to be faithful to the one you love. I was a male whore and slept with a lot of different women as I went through my life from 15 yrs old to 27. I found only personla satisfaction but knew that there was so much more and grew up in church. I finally had my aunt beleive in me and ask me to go to a singles group outing. The reason I'm telling you this is because that's the night i met my wife. I fell in love with her then. I'm use to haveing sex with them the first or second date, but she was an actual preachers daughter who wanted to wait. She never had sex nor has she ever dated anyone so to her being afraind of falling into temptation. We have just celibrated our 7th anniversary and have a 1 yr old and a 4 yr olsd. I aslo was a sex addict, but found that when you wait or give yourself to one person completely that you will find more compasion and have petter love than you did when it was just someone. My problem now is alcohol that Im strugaling with.